im sorry to hear of your loss, i dont know you, but i know if i lost my brother or sister i couldnt bear it. personally, i would not see it as a bad thing to keep that bond alive but perhaps chanel your grief into something positive, a memorial perhaps. just a thought. be strong

Good grief! And now I've written that, I'd better qualify. Grief is good; you need to say goodbye and keep people in your heart at the same time.

You've answered this question:

http://morelearning.blog.co.uk/?tag=eviledna

Look after yourself.

xx

You're not sat there thinking "I wish he was back and unhappy".

What you want is him back and a better world, for him, and for you.

You still ARE his sister, that is still a definition. Nothing will ever change that fact and as you go through life you'll use things he taught you.

Everybody leaves ripples in the world, even when they're gone, and as long as the ripples carry on, so do they.

*hug*

x

It's certainly not selfish. I miss my dad sometimes and still think of him xx